3. Don't ever send a woman flowers just for the hell of it - she must EARN those flowers. I have taken some heat from several of my female friends over this point-of-view but for me it just makes the most sense. The woman must be contributing something to you and the relationship for you to send her flowers ... as one-way relationships are bad for the "giver". Don't be that one-way "giver" ... best instead to give AND receive ... and in that case it is fine to send her flowers just because you love her. If you send flowers too often then it can marginalize their effect.
4. Never send flowers if SHE has misbehaved - you don't ever want to reward bad behavior. I cannot emphasize this point enough. If she is being bad ... like cheating ... or doing anything destructive to the relationship ... then do not reward that bad behavior with flowers or jewelry or anything ... because it sends the wrong message, and will ultimately make you feel bad about yourself. Better to save your money!
If you instead want to know when it IS appropriate to send flowers, then check out our other article, entitled, When to Send A Woman Flowers
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