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TIPS TO KNOW YOU'RE HAVING AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR

Emotional affairs are external to one's primary intimate relationship or marriage.  They can ultimately lead to physical intimacy but typically start off as a friendship ... a friendship that gets out of hand over time.  Secrecy, deception of your partner, and varying or increasing forms of emotional betrayal often occur.  Here are nine signs that YOU are having an emotional affair.

1)  Friendship is secret, or extent of the relationship is secret.
You either hide the relationship with your friend completely from your partner, or you hide how much or how often you communicate with your friend.  The deception is that your partner has no idea how close you are to this other person.

2)  Relationship where you wouldn't feel comfortable with your partner knowing the details.
>> Read the entire article here

Emotional Affair

MIDLIFE CRISIS AFFAIR ENDS IN UNHAPPINESS

DEAR MIDLIFE BACHELOR:
I am so unhappy after having had a midlife crisis affair on my wife of 30 years, and having her find out and divorce me.  I really thought I was in love with my affair partner, but later realized it was only lust.  I also realized that this woman was not a good person at all, and really neither was I for cheating on my spouse.  I left my wife for this other woman, and it was a huge mistake. I wish I could turn back the clock, and do everything over a different way.

It took me almost three years to wake up to reality.  My wife was a good woman.  Sure, we had marital problems, but my wife was my best friend and she took care of me.  My affair partner turned out to be very different - she is selfish and self-absorbed.  Her selfishness also made me see that I was engaging in many of the same selfish behaviors with my (now ex-) wife, as my affair partner is now engaging in with me.  The whole experience opened my
>> Read the entire Question and Answer here

Midlife Crisis Affair ends in unhappiness

DATE SOMEONE SEPARATED BUT NOT DIVORCED?

DEAR MIDLIFE BACHELOR:
Should I consider dating someone who is separated but not yet divorced?  I was involved in a very ugly divorce that finished up around two years ago, and am just now giving online dating a try.  I've been getting emailed lately by several women on the dating site I'm on, and they are "separated" but not divorced.  I come from a somewhat religious background myself and so I didn't personally date before my divorce was final, but I'm wondering what's normal out in the world today.  I was married for 12 years so I've been out of circulation for quite a while.  I do want to go out and have fun because I was miserable for a long time while married.  Any advice?

MIDLIFE BACHELOR ANSWER:  Thanks for writing in - this is an excellent question that seems to pop up from time to time.  Basically, it is UP TO YOU to decide if dating someone who is not yet divorced is morally acceptable.  Many (or most) people these days don't seem to care either way - but those that spend a lot of
>> Read the entire Question and Answer here

Date someone separated

GIRLFRIEND PREGNANT IN HER FORTIES

DEAR MIDLIFE BACHELOR:
My girlfriend and I are both in our 40s, and she just tested positive for pregnancy. She is 45, and I am 48. I know we should have known better than to allow this accident to happen - but it has, and now I'm trying to figure out what to do. She is a born-again Christian, and does not believe in abortion. I am Christian but not a very good one - which means I do not go to church but maybe once or twice a year. We are both divorced and have been dating one another for six months. She also has 3 other children ages 12, 14, and 16. Please give me some advice.

MIDLIFE BACHELOR ANSWER:  Thanks for writing in.  Your situation is a bit uncommon - and I'd say you have some quick and life-altering decisions to make.  I will do my best to give you some things to consider.

First of all, it sounds like aborting the child is out of the
. >> Read the entire Question and Answer here

Pregnant in her forties

MOVING TOO FAST IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP

DEAR MIDLIFE BACHELOR:
My girlfriend, who is turning 55 this week, just met a guy on eharmony.  He lives a couple hours away and they spent all day together on their first date.  During this time he took her to a mall where he bought her a gold "friendship" ring and a keychain on which he had engraved both their names on one side and "Thinking of you always" on the other.  They have known each other a whopping week now and have already exchanged 'I love you's.  He told her she never has to work again.  She described him as perfect, brilliant, etc., and said she would marry him.  I looked at his profile online, and he looks normal and the profile didn't send up alarm bells.  What's your take on this guy?  Is he desperate, a con artist, or what?  I'm disappointed that a woman her age would not practice common sense in a situation like this, especially after having been burned in the past.

MIDLIFE BACHELOR ANSWER:
CLEARLY there are alarm bells going off - but I cannot tell exactly what this guy's deal is.  CLEARLY he is (or appears to be) moving fast fast fast ... and there has got to be a reason
. >> Read the entire Question and Answer here

Slow Down in a new relationship

HOW TO OVERCOME BEING A TWO-PUMP CHUMP

DEAR MIDLIFE BACHELOR:  I'm a 42 year old single man with a heart of gold.  I have had success with women throughout my life, but nothing that has ever lasted in terms of a long-term relationship.  I'm looking for love, but I feel handicapped.  About 6 months ago, I started having sexual performance issues so I started taking testosterone.  While that has helped get me started, I have suddenly turned into a "two pump chump".  It has gotten so bad that I don't feel that I could ever satisfy a woman sexually anymore.  I am in a bad spot since a recent break up with someone I dated casually for a year.  She knew my issues and seemed okay with it.  When I started feeling deeper about her, she backed off and I lost her.  She said she wasn't able to give me what I need.  She has a healthy sex drive and needs more than I could possibly give now so she satisfies herself in other ways.  I know that sex is only a part of a relationship, but to me it helps reinforce intimacy and closeness.  With my lack of ability in this area, I feel like I will never be able to have that again and I'm entirely lost.  I get caught up in my head thinking about her with others, and I lose my mind. Not angry towards her, mind you, but angry at my helplessness.  I feel hopeless and alone.  Any feedback would be appreciated.
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Overcoming premature ejaculation

36 YEAR OLD HOTTIE HAS NO LUCK ONLINE DATING
DEAR MIDLIFE BACHELOR::  I have no luck online dating, and need some advice about dating guys in their 30s and 40s!  Your website seems like the perfect place to garner advice, as I am newly single and have been dating men in this age range.  As I live in a smallish town without many prospects, I've turned to online dating.  And what a boost it was to have so many men emailing me!  I had no lack of dates from online, and had tons of fun - but I have to say that my success rate in this age range has been absolutely zero.  When I dated in my 20s, men always seemed to want me, and I took it for granted.

But now, I'm not sure what's going on.  I'm an attractive woman (long hair, slim and athletic, and everyone tells me I look like I'm 26, not 36), have no children or any other baggage, and have a good, sweet/fun personality, awesome job, etc.  All of my dates
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No Luck Online Dating

HOW TO DATE A RICH MAN OR WOMAN?
Ever wondered how you might go about dating a rich man or woman? Have you ever considered what you need to do in order to meet a rich man or woman to date? If dating someone wealthy is your goal, then keep reading for some pointers.

First of all, how do you put yourself out there in order to meet someone wealthy? There are three quick ways to do this:

1) Use a dating website that specifically caters to the >>> MORE - read the entire discussion here
Rich man, rich woman


Below are some of our more popular Midlife Articles.   Visit the Short Midlife Articles page to see a listing of all articles.

Midlife Crisis Affair
How to Deal with a Midlife Crisis Affair and Divorce
You have been married for many years, and one day he comes home and tells you he is leaving you for someone else. Here is exactly what you need to do ...
Advantages of Cheating on your spouse
Advantages of Cheating on your Spouse or Girlfriend?   Controversial
Are there actually advantages to cheating on your spouse or girlfriend / boyfriend?  Are there benefits to be realized … or gains to be had as a result of cheating?  The answer depends on who you are ...
Meet someone wealthy
How to Meet a Wealthy Man or Rich Woman on Millionairematch.com?
Here are some proven methods to significantly increase your chances of meeting a wealthy man or woman on millionairematch.com (follow-up article to "How to Date a Rich Man or Woman?" - next article below) ...
Write an online dating profile
How to Write an Online Dating Profile
Here is how to write a great online dating profile that will deliver excellent results. Using ANY of these suggestions will make you many times more attractive than your competition ...
Find a Sugar Baby
How to Find a Sugar Baby on Sugardaddyforme.com
If you have extra money, and would like to land yourself an incredibly hot, early 20s girlfriend then here is a step-by-step guide on how to accomplish your mission within a month or so ...
Husband becomes gay
5 Signs Your Husband May Be Realizing He's Gay
Marriages dissolve for different reasons - sometimes it's because one partner's sexual orientation changes, or becomes clear for the first time. Here is what one woman went through, and what to watch for if you suspect ...
When to Send Flowers
When to Send a Woman Flowers ♥♥♥
Knowing when to send a woman flowers is just as important as knowing when NOT to send them.  Here are some good bachelor guidelines for when to / when NOT to send flowers, how many to send, what kind, etc.  There is also some direct input from several of my female friends ...
Remove life support
Removing a Parent from Life Support
If you are curious about the types of things one goes through when removing a loved one from life support, then check this out.  Definitely not for the faint of heart.

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